Posted on 15 Jul 2014 16:34
…and being hurt are the same — there are no relationships without problems. You can try to hide and avoid them by focusing on the positives. Nice, simple, no one has to do anything. Just pretend everything is OK. Or you can try to deal with them and remove the negatives. Hard, painful, requires changes and opening up to your other self.
The first way is easier. The second way is better. IMHO.